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Selfish Reasons to Send Your Kid to Public School
You can buy a tutor, but you can't buy a village
Feb 4
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Lindsay Meisel
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December 2025
Community by Necessity
Why you can't buy the village you're looking for
Dec 2, 2025
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Lane Scott
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October 2025
5 community norms every parent deserves
… but few of us have
Oct 14, 2025
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Chloe Sladden
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September 2025
The first line of defense against school shootings isn't security—it's connection
How security theater undermines school safety
Sep 18, 2025
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Chloe Sladden
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What happened to school directories?
How privacy-obsessed parents are ruining it for the rest of us
Sep 3, 2025
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Chloe Sladden
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August 2025
Case study: the parent village of Mt. Airy
How one mom tentatively put out the call for parent community … and was blown away by the response.
Aug 27, 2025
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Leah Olude
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Fair Play didn’t work for me. This did.
The system my partner and I used to make life with 3 kids feel sane & and not hate each other.
Aug 4, 2025
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Chloe Sladden
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July 2025
My Beef with Fair Play
What if the problem isn’t your partner?
Jul 23, 2025
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Chloe Sladden
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How (and why) to do pop-up communes
And why they are especially great for families
Jul 16, 2025
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Chloe Sladden
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Hosting is hard. Do it anyway.
It’s the best way to fast track community.
Jul 11, 2025
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Chloe Sladden
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April 2025
Community Didn't Solve All of My Parenting Problems. Just 99% of Them.
How to build the essential infrastructure of modern parenting
Apr 18, 2025
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Chloe Sladden
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